Showing posts with label moving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label moving. Show all posts
Today is the first day of T's elementary career. R and I will join him as he attends his kindergarten openhouse today. We will meet with the teachers, take a peek at the school and his classroom, and sign up for activities (before and after care, at least). We will try to make a good impression (the kids better get a nap before we head out).

Tomorrow I will pack his lunch in a new transformers lunch box. I believe we have all the required supplies to pack this lunch. I wonder if I will cry as I pack his lunch and holler at him to get ready. I know I will take a ton of pictures.

My baby is going to school. It seems like yesterday I thought I would never have a child. Here I am with two beautiful and smart children. My eldest is going into kindergarten and my youngest is so tall and talks up a storm. She'll be THREE in November! Oh my heart hurts.

In a lot of ways I am so ready to have the next baby. However, life has thrown us a few curve balls. The move is taking a bit (ok, six months) longer than we had expected. There will be a lot of physical activity that I may not be able to do if I were six months pregnant. This is also in addition to the fact that we decided that I have to get a job. So any additional children (via fertility treatment)will have to wait unless we spontaniously conceive (it could happen.. maybe)or next spring.

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P took Friday and today off to work on the house in VA. He wants me to go back and do some more (the electrician needs to come by too) later this week. I'll do it because it will just be me and R. We can get the projects done in the morning and visit our friends in the afternoon. I hope to have a job offer before I leave. If I do, GREAT! If not, I will be out pounding the pavement looking for a job.

P bought a paint sprayer and painted over all the color (buyers like white.. whatever) in the house and put a fresh coat in the other rooms. He was sad to paint the kids rooms, because it was like wiping away our life from the house. A buyer who came by yesterday was happy to hear we were painting the rooms white. He'll admit it looks a lot "cleaner", a fresh canvas for a buyer, but it was so pretty and a lot of work to get it the way it was.

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I am feeling pretty good these days. My brief stay in the hospital was a wake up call to take my supplements regularly (no matter what life throws at me). It will take close to three months to feel "normal" even with the iron transfusion and extra large doses of iron at home. My family is afraid that I am over doing it and I am sure they will be mad to hear that I am going back to VA.

I am working hard to incorporate more ACTIVities for the kids and myself. We are swimming every other day and walking too. I have a sparkpage that is helping me keep track of my intake, fitness goals, and personal goals. The kids are also starting tumbling this Wednesday. I may try the gym in the same building... hmm.. a yoga class maybe?


P and I celebrated our 9th anniversary on Sunday. It was low key at home with our two precious children. We arrived back home from visiting MO early Sunday morning.

P's father is better than when we were called out. The man has a fight in him that I can't understand. There must be some quality in him to fight so hard. The entire family is exhausted though. Staying in standby mode is a rollercoaster ride. I'm grateful that we live farther away.. but at the same time I know that P would prefer to be closer to help his family out. I announced on our drive home that I want his mother to come and live with us after his father passes away.

Their home is falling apart, she has never lived on her own, and she just plain old needs help. P's sister has done a ton for their parents and I think this is a way that P and I can help out. P believes that I will go crazy.. But, I think it will be good for her and for our kids. Grandma around to give cuddles and read books. I don't expect her to keep the house or watch the children (her health is declining as well). Instead, I want to help her learn how to be pro-active in her medical care and learn how to use a budget.

I think God really believes what I said. I don't know that we can really afford a house that could fit our (hopefully growing) family and a MIL in the market that we currently live in. We would be in the low 400k range and that's just crazy. But, as I said God is watching over us.

P was offered an interview on Tuesday with a different gov't agency. The interview went well and there were promising remarks. We are leaving it in God's hands and doing some googling on the market in the northern AL area.

This is an ideal time for us in so many ways. I can't count my chickens before they hatch.. but we have been on the fence about so many things and God always provides for us in these situations. I'm hopeful that it will happen again... God has a plan.. he just chooses to share it with me in small increments.